Impossible to reach
I am an optimist, at least that is what I think. I think that people would take my thoughts and words and find good in them. This is easy to see when you see things in a balanced way but sadly, this is not the case at all because people always want to take advantage of others in order to assuage their egos and give them a feeling of self-worth. This constant search for advantage is actually a barrier to progress because it blinds them to opportunities that stare them in the face. If it does not give them an advantage then they will not take it even though it is fair and balanced. It always has to be stacked in their favor. This is how people are.
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It pains me but I have to learn to take it in stride. I used to think that sulking and withdrawing into my own shell was a good way to deal with these situations with these kinds of people but I have changed somewhat and I take everything with a grain of salt and look for another way to get cooperation. Not everyone can grasp a good thing as quickly as some other people and patience is often required.
Our favorites are: Ching's World, Green Tea, Dumaguete, Cebu City, Cagayan de Oro City, Papoy, Moira Trinity Cagayan de Oro, Dumaguete, Cebu are all in the Philippines in the world of Ching.
Come into these sites: Squeak Smalltalk Adventure, The Ordinary Life, Politics: Divine Right of Kings and Presidents, Creation, Life, Consciousness.
It pains me but I have to learn to take it in stride. I used to think that sulking and withdrawing into my own shell was a good way to deal with these situations with these kinds of people but I have changed somewhat and I take everything with a grain of salt and look for another way to get cooperation. Not everyone can grasp a good thing as quickly as some other people and patience is often required.
Our favorites are: Ching's World, Green Tea, Dumaguete, Cebu City, Cagayan de Oro City, Papoy, Moira Trinity Cagayan de Oro, Dumaguete, Cebu are all in the Philippines in the world of Ching.
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